Women 2

This is the third installment of the Red Pill, Blue Pill, Black Pill, White Pills series.

Red Pills for Men

Gents, just to refresh here: This isn't going to be a post about pointing out what is wrong with women. No one reading this is perfect or a perfect partner, the author included. There are many good women out there handling the issues for the fairer sex, I don't feel the need to delve into it. Some of this isn't going to be fun to hear. I don't care. If you are totally happy with women and your relationship with them, then you probably don't need to read this piece anyway. If you feel like things could be better, or you have hit a wall, then this might just be for you.

No Woman is Going to Give You Unconditional Love

Except maybe your mother, and that isn't guaranteed is it? Your girlfriend/wife is not your mom (please tell me it isn't your mom) and the expectation of unconditional love should not be placed on her. Capisce?

The way we love is different, and we think that women love the exact same way. This is not the case. Let me explain:

Women get horny, and men get horny yeah? The things that turn a woman on, and turn a man on aren't always the same. Healthy men and women enjoy sex, but not in the same way. Healthy men and women have orgasms, but not in the same way. So this being the case why would we think that the way we love each other is exactly the same?

As I have said before my wife is my soulmate (yes, they do exist you cynical bastard). I don't know if it is possible for that woman to love me any more than she does. I don't know that it is possible for a different woman to be able to love me the same way that she does. I think that this is astronomically improbable actually. I am certain she feels the same way if you asked her the same question.

A Hypothetical

Lets talk about how I show my wife love:

• I work hard to provide a good living for our family

• I am faithful

• Our marriage is my highest earthly concern.

• I try to stay healthy and attractive

• I love our children, and try to parent them to the best of my ability

• I protect our home and family

Those are all reasonable things for a husband to provide to his family. In fact I don't even feel like I have to make myself do any of those things. These are just masculine imperatives as far as I am concerned. What if I stopped doing any or all of those things? What if I started cheating? What if I decided that I have worked hard enough and its time for her to pick up my slack? What if when we hear a bump in the night I stay in bed under the covers and send her out to go investigate?

Would I still be a good husband if I stopped doing these things? Does she, owe me unconditional love if I cheat on her? I don't think that I have to beat this dead horse. You get the idea.

I know for a fact when the day comes that I get sick, and I cannot do the things that I once did she will still love me. Just like, God forbid, the opposite happened, my love for her wouldn't change.

So why do we hold our women to a standard that we cant even meet?

This is weakness, this is lazy, and its a copout. We have to do our part gents. No one wants a partner who is going to weigh them down, or even the worse a partner who just needs someone to take care of them. This is in our best interest honestly. If you aren't improving you are being subjected to entropy. You don't want a woman who thinks you are weak, for a whole variety of reasons (this is its own red pill for a later time) because something isn't right with her. Maybe its a deep insecurity, who knows...but I do know that the dysfunction will come to the surface and manifest in all kinds of unhealthy ways.

Your mission should be to take your God given gifts and talents and run with them. Make yourself interesting. Make yourself the kind of man that other men want to be, and I promise the women will come.

We will get to some more Red Pills later gents. Until next time, Jack.

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